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Welcome to Grief Help 

 

This site's intent is to:

 

Provide some basic help/guidance to people in mourning 

and to people who know someone mourning (so they have a clue how to act)

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After losing the only woman I ever loved, I was shattered and completely lost. I attended support groups, met a grief counselor - and looked at a lot of web sites.  Frankly I felt most were too complicated or busy, trying to be all things to all people. I was already overwhelmed; I wondered "can't someone just give me some quick-hit advice on dealing with this??" And then got the idea of creating such a site...a smaller, simpler site.  I only try to hit on what I think are the most important things to keep in mind about grief up front, based on what I learned and wished I'd known sooner. 

 

Please understand I am not trying to say "this is how you should grieve."  In fact, I think that's rule #1:  there is no "the" way to deal with this. It's different for everyone.  

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I'm sorry for any need you have for this site, but hope you can get something from it. I welcome any feedback, whether it's about the site or about dealing with grief in general. 

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This site exists because of and is dedicated to Deborah Davis Jones.  

My full dedication to her is on the "Dedication" page (under "More" above).

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